Because everyday is an adventure day- but it doesn’t have to be hard

So you are asking what is this blog and why did I decide to start it? So I am sitting in karate watching my son doing his form and acting like the karate kid at 930 in the morning on a Saturday after I was out on the previous night on a date talking to another dad. He was explaining to me about a great event that he brought his kids to upstate that my kids might also think is awesome. In the midst of his explanation he told me how hard it was to keep up with his kids and he couldn’t believe he survived a day alone with his two children. I then had recent conversations with some married women who tell me that they are afraid to leave their kids alone with their husbands for more than an hour. So they feel overwhelmed because they never get a break from their own children because they can’t trust trust leaving them with their dads. WTF? I mean, my Dad was not the most maternal dude in the wold, and he couldn’t cook worth a damn, but my mom wasn’t afraid to leave me and my brother with him for a few hours or an entire day. Well she was more afraid that we might be punished for the rest of our life after spending a day with our Dad because he didn’t take any mess.

I would have to say the best outcome for my kids when me and my wife got divorced was that it allowed our kids to get personal one-on-one time with each individual parent. A lot of times we spend so much time catering to the children as a unit we don’t take the time to cater to them as individuals. The second positive outcome was that it allowed me and my ex to also get private time for ourselves without the children. This also included vacations. My ex states that she has the greatest babysitter in the world when she wants to go on an extended vacation out of the country. It take great pride that I am so involved in my kids lives and find new and exciting things for them to do on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis.

One of the pillars of my interaction with my children is something we like to call, “Adventure Day”. Every Saturday we try and find a new part of the city or the world to explore and try new things. This could mean a new restaurant, new food, activity or institution. There are only four rules for Adventure Day and they are: Listen, Try, Be Polite, and HAVE FUN! So I wanted to share a lot of these experiences with other mothers and fathers as they think of cool things they can do with their kids during the course of the day or the week or the month. Especially for the fathers out there who think that it is difficult to get out there with their kids. Trust me these are memories that will sustain your kids for their lives (yes, Dad, I remember the drives to the catholic school with my friends in the Toyota Celica, and our Boy Scout trips vividly) and will make you feel good about your time with them as well. The best part you will give their mother a well deserved break and private time that will be paid forward in ways I can’t explain in a family oriented blog (LOL).

My goal is to make this not only a blog about my experiences, but also a resource for cool books, events, music, movies, etc. that we can all share with our children as Dads (even moms!). So I hope you enjoy the photos, videos, discussions, polls, and feel free to comment as much as possible to this blog. My intention is for Dad’s to share their experiences and feel good about being an ACTIVE part of their kid’s lives whether they live in your house or down the block or across the country.

Thank you for reading and I look forward to a wonderful and exciting ADVENTURE with each and everyone one of you.

Frantz